How to get natural photos of kids (and dads who hate photos)

Almost every family has one: a toddler who won't sit still or a dad who'd rather be anywhere else. Good news: neither is a problem.

Don't ask for smiles

"Say cheese" gets a grimace. Games, tickles, races and silly questions get real laughter, which looks far better.

Keep everyone moving

Walking together, swinging little ones between you, a piggyback: movement gives people something to do and the photographs feel alive.

Bribery is allowed

A small treat at the end works wonders. Keep it out of sight until the end, and skip anything that stains.

Give the reluctant ones a job

Partners who dislike photos relax when they're busy: carrying a child, chasing the dog, leading the walk. I'll take it from there.

Let the meltdowns go

A tired five minutes is normal. We'll take a break and come back to it. Some of the most loved photographs come straight after a wobble, when everyone's hugging it out.

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